a friend sent me this great quote, and i just had to share...
(J. R. Miller, "Home-Making" 1882)
What we want to do with our children, is not merely to control them and keep them in order--but to implant true principles deep in their hearts which shall rule their whole lives; to shape their character from within into Christ-like beauty, and to make of them noble men and women, strong for battle of life. They are to be trained rather than governed. Growth of character, not merely good behavior--is the object of all home governing and teaching. Therefore the home influence is far more important than the home laws; and the parents' lives are of more significance than their teachings. Whatever may be done in the way of governing, teaching or training--theories are not half as important as the parents' lives. They may teach the most beautiful things--but if the child does not see these things modeled in the life of the parent--he will not consider them important enough to be adopted in his own life.
4 comments:
SO true! Being an example of how you want your children to live has far more impact than just telling them. Good quote.
This you are doing, dear daughter!! I have witnessed it first hand!
WE MISS OUR PRECIOUS BOYS!!
Kiss and hug 'em for us!
that's a wonderful quote ella! thanks for sharing it!
wow ella! wow..
How are things? I just tagged you on my blog! cant wait to read your response! love you!
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